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Bill de Blasio and wife Chirlane McCray are separating to date other people ‐ without moving out or divorcing
2023-07-05
[NY Post] Awwwkward
Former Mayor Bill de Blasio and wife Chirlane McCray announced Wednesday that they are splitting after 29 years of marriage — so that they can date other people without living apart or getting divorced.

"I just want to have fun," McCray — who was living as a lesbian when they met — told the New York Times in a joint interview announcing the split.

The couple claimed that the decision came during a heart-to-heart at home about two months ago in which they discussed why they were not "lovey-dovey anymore."

However, they conceded that the marriage started crumbling years earlier — especially during the then-mayor’s disastrous 2020 run for the White House.

"I thought it was a distraction," McCray said of the much-mocked bid that never came close to succeeding.

She said she only stood by de Blasio at the time because the presidential run was "not the kind of thing where you can break ranks ... That’s part of the difficulty of being part of a package."

De Blasio, 62, admitted that the description of his wildly over-ambitious aspirations as a distraction is "kind of true."

"Point for Chirlane," he told the Times in their nearly three-hour interview at the Brooklyn home they still plan to share.

De Blasio also blamed his eight years as mayor.

"Everything was this overwhelming schedule, this sort of series of tasks," he complained.

"And that kind of took away a little bit of our soul."

The COVID crisis made the mayor "emotionally very needy," he now admits, saying that also left him and his wife "not as connected."

McCray, meanwhile, also blamed the lack of "infrastructure" for her own political aspirations, which sparked anger as her mental health initiatives were green-lighted under her husband’s leadership.

The Times also highlighted how the marriage was also promoted to show that de Blasio was not "some boring white guy," as one of their two adult kids once said.
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Posted by:Frank G

#15  Wilhelm: Damn it, where did you put those millions?

Missus: You have a lot of nerve! Where did YOU put those millions?
Posted by: DooDahMan   2023-07-05 20:43  

#14  Together? They have nothing to offer. Separate? Even less. Warren Wilhelm V2.0
Posted by: Frank G   2023-07-05 19:50  

#13  Both sort of missed out on that 'integrity' standard thingy.
Posted by: Procopius2k   2023-07-05 17:39  

#12  She said she only stood by de Blasio at the time because the presidential run was "not the kind of thing where you can break ranks ... That’s part of the difficulty of being part of a package."

Is there a blood oath Democrats take during campaigns?
Posted by: JohnQC   2023-07-05 17:26  

#11  Bitter divorce, asset disputes and poof, your Ex turns State's Evidence witness against you in a Grand Jury Hearing. I can't think of anyone for whom this axiom applies more, except Hilda and Billy-Jeff.
Posted by: NoMoreBS   2023-07-05 16:34  

#10  they can date other people without living apart or getting divorced.

So that's news?
Too many intertwined and questionable assets to liquidate in a divorce.
Posted by: Skidmark   2023-07-05 14:21  

#9  Nothing “lovey dovey” about being a loser.
Posted by: Super Hose   2023-07-05 14:04  

#8  It's her idea. Trust me.
Posted by: Secret Master    2023-07-05 14:01  

#7  Who would want to date either one of them?
Posted by: DarthVader   2023-07-05 13:40  

#6  Vows? It was always a political marriage for both. Now that politics have discarded them...
Posted by: Rex Mundi   2023-07-05 13:36  

#5  Excuse me but who would want to date that guy?
Posted by: Abu Uluque   2023-07-05 13:24  

#4  Boring White Guy trope eh?

How about, another single Black Woman, wanna hit that NY Pronoun?
Posted by: swksvolFF   2023-07-05 13:19  

#3  “Overwhelming schedule “ ! He was the laziest son of a bitch ever to never get out of bed.
Posted by: Ululating Platypus    2023-07-05 13:17  

#2  Going to guess one or the other's lawyer said it's time to choose sides.
Posted by: M. Murcek    2023-07-05 13:01  

#1  Great. If I ever decide to try to date, I now know that I won’t be the worst candidate on the market.
Posted by: Super Hose   2023-07-05 12:58  

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