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| The adult 'boomerang kids' moving home to their parents |
| 2022-02-12 |
| [BBC] With costs of living increasing, a ’boomerang’ period of moving back in with parents could be the norm, not the exception, for people in their 20s and 30s. In early March 2020, Sheridan Block, 30, had just finished a year abroad in Marseilles, France, as a volunteer English teacher to refugees. She flew home to Jacksonville, Florida, to spend time with her maternal grandparents — her grandfather was recovering from health issues at the time. Her plan was to stay a few months to help care for them while also saving money, paying off some student debt and credit card bills before returning abroad. Then, the pandemic hit. "It was kind of a spiral," says Block. In exchange for living rent-free, she helped drive her grandparents to appointments, ran errands, cooked and did chores around the house. She ended up staying nearly two years. "I was able to save enough money to pay off all those debts that I had, to finance a car and then ultimately to move out," she explains. It was beneficial financially, she says, and good to be close to family, but it required her to adjust her ideas of what adulthood should look like. Block is among a growing group of ’boomerang kids’ — adult children who return to their parents or grandparents’ homes after moving out. This group of adults is on the rise — and not just because of the pandemic. In July 2020, 52% of young adults in the US resided with one or both of their parents, according to a Pew Research Center analysis — the highest percentage the United States has seen since the end of the Great Depression, in 1940. In the UK, the proportion of single, child-free 20-to-34-year-olds living with their parents went up 55% between 2008 to 2017, according to research from Loughborough University. In Western cultures particularly, moving away from home has traditionally been considered a crucial step in becoming an independent adult. But as the number of boomerang kids continues to rise in countries such as the US, UK and Canada, this may be set to change — and with it, our notion of what the stages of adult independence look like. |
| Posted by:Besoeker |
| #6 "I was able to save enough money to pay off all those debts that I had, to finance a car and then ultimately to move out," she explains. It was beneficial financially, she says, and good to be close to family, but it required her to adjust her ideas of what adulthood should look like." This simply sounds mature to me. Nothing wrong with volunteering to teach refugees English; I'd like to find some reason to go to Marseilles myself! But it sounds like she did the right thing for exactly the right reasons. |
| Posted by: Secret Master 2022-02-12 22:40 |
| #5 30 years old and taking a job overseas that pays nothing. She's going to be homeless when mom and dad pass away. |
| Posted by: Chris 2022-02-12 10:32 |
| #4 The mindset problem in a nutshell... |
| Posted by: M. Murcek 2022-02-12 08:49 |
| #3 If as seems likely we separate from the Wokesters and create our own parallel culture with its own self-reliant communities, we will have to replace the extreme individualism of the Woke society with a traditionalist ethos based on strong families and mutual support. |
| Posted by: Merrick Ferret 2022-02-12 08:45 |
| #2 Nothing unusual for kids to get a false start and quickly get slapped in the face with the real world, with JOBS cuts and layoffs during certain Political cycles. But when ours returned, we were clear about one Golden House Rule. Stay as long as you need and contribute. But understand it is "Our House - Our Rules, a discussion is OK!, but your Mom & I are the final say. |
| Posted by: NN2N1 2022-02-12 08:16 |
| #1 In exchange for living rent-free, she helped drive her grandparents to appointments, ran errands, cooked and did chores around the house. She ended up staying nearly two years. I believe most parents who have the means, would welcome the opportunity to help during these difficult times. |
| Posted by: Besoeker 2022-02-12 06:06 |