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Home Front: Culture Wars
30 Transgender Regretters Come Out Of The Closet
2019-01-04
[The Federalist] Walt Heyer knows firsthand what it’s like to undergo sex change surgery and then regret it. After living as a woman for nearly a decade, he decided to accept his biological sex and de-transition back to male. By then, Walt had received intensive cognitive therapy that helped him recognize early childhood trauma he had experienced.

The trauma resulted in a mental condition known as dissociative identity disorder (DID). In the clarity of that realization, his gender dysphoria simply vanished. His life as a "woman" all amounted to an attempt to escape reality. Sadly, too few people consider the possibility that gender dysphoria can manifest as a byproduct or symptom of other mental conditions, and most certainly of DID. (More on that below.)

Walt suffered huge waves of regret as a result of following through with his urge to be a woman. He had eagerly taken the bait of politicized medical practitioners, who hurried him along in the transition. He not only regretted what he had done to his body, he also grieved over the estrangement from his wife and children caused by his drastic change in identity.

There was collateral damage to other personal relationships as well. He also regretted the lost decade of his life in which he lived in the persona of a woman.

HEYER’S NEW BOOK SHINES LIGHT ON TRANS LIFE SURVIVORS
Heyer has written several books on transgender regret, but his sixth and newest book, "Trans Life Survivors," is not his personal story. It’s a compilation of the stories of many others caught up in today’s "transmania." They specifically sought out Walt to get some much-needed support. They’ve shared their lonely, surreal experiences falling down the trans rabbit hole, hoping to escape as he did.
Posted by:Besoeker

#3  #1 - Sitzpinkler
Posted by: Frank G   2019-01-04 11:12  

#2  Even sadder, most people's lives are an attempt to escape or avoid reality. Some of the examples are more colorful or exciting than others.
Posted by: Anguper Hupomosing9418   2019-01-04 10:41  

#1  sad story... caught up in the hype and spend the rest of your life p*ssing, sitting down.
Posted by: Lampedusa Snusomble6446   2019-01-04 09:35  

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